What Are You Grateful For?

Thanksgiving is that time of year when we pause for a moment to reflect on aspects of our lives that we are thankful for. It’s a shame we don’t find time to make reflection a part of our regular daily routines, but we’re busy people, right?

An author I met, Derek Rydall, recently sent an email message to those of us on his email list. I found it inspiring and wanted to share a portion of it with you. He titled his article, What You Appreciate… Appreciates. In it, Derek suggests that we try to become more aware of what we are grateful for and he makes a great case for us to count our blessings.  “This isn’t just a nice thing to do, it’s a powerful practice that can radically transform your life on every level. The reason is that what you appreciate…appreciates. What you give thanks for expands,” says Derek. He believes that focusing our attention on positive things will bring more positive energy and experiences into our lives. And focusing on negative aspects will bring us more negativity. “When you live in a state of gratitude, you create the fertile conditions for your greater potential to unfold, because you literally become the kind of person you would be if that potential came true.”

Among other things he encouraged his readers to make four lists. One list Derek titled: Successes/Achievements… and another, I’m capable of / I can… These two lists were great to bring about reflection, and more importantly they inspired action by affirming what we can ‘do’ in the direction of our goals and dreams. Give them a try. To see the other lists and read the complete article, visit his site at www.derekrydall.com

What Writers Can Learn From American Idol

In case you haven’t heard, American Idol is a popular reality program on TV. While watching recently, I realized there are some comparisons with the show and writing. Here’s what writers can learn from watching American Idol:

1. Many of the people who want to be singers have absolutely no talent. Watch the audition episodes if you don’t believe me. While those contestants deserve kudos for having the courage to give it a shot, they are clearly not ready for the big leagues. They thankfully get weeded out rather quickly. It’s the same with writers. Many people who claim they want to be writers lack patience, which appears as a lack of talent. I’m not saying that to be mean. You know people who boasted they whipped out their novel over their two-week vacation. Not that you can’t write a good draft in two weeks. But a draft isn’t meant to be seen in public. It needs time and editing and crafting. Everyone wants to write a novel and there are those who send out their work before it’s ready. The publishing system weeds out most of them.

2. If you believe the contestants in their backstage interviews, successful singers sing to improve their craft. They didn’t just drop out of a turnip truck. They practiced the art of singing. Hmm… surely you’ve heard the phrase, writers write. Writing is how writers practice and improve their craft.

3. Idol contestants, through the course of the episodes, also take risks, they challenge themselves with their song choices, and they listen to the experts brought in to offer tips. Writers should take risks, too. Write outside your comfort zone once in awhile and see what happens. It never hurts to bring in experts of your own, either by going to a conference or workshop or reading an article or a writing book. Then put what you learn into practice. See item #2.

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4. It’s obvious that singers need more than talent. Just as with writers, they need that something extra to make them stand out. I think it is creativity, a unique voice, and self-knowledge that give both singers and writers that spark.

5. Cream rises to the top. It really does. Just as you watch one contestant after another sing and you think they’re pretty good, one comes along who knocks your socks off and you’re surprised and you’re thrilled. Suddenly the other singers don’t seem all that good anymore. Readers want to be surprised and thrilled, too. It’s not enough to write a good book. You have to knock their socks off.

6. When judges say you have no artistic ability or you should quit, you need to shake it off and persevere. Three of the most popular American Idol contestants did not win on the show! Jennifer Hudson went on to win an Oscar for her singing and acting in Dreamgirls. Chris Daughtry came in fourth but has the third highest record sales of any Idol contestant. Clay Aiken has starred on Broadway and enjoyed multiplatinum success with his debut album. What if these contestants had given up after the judges sent them packing?  And get this, Hillary Scott, now a lead singer for Lady Antebellum, tried out for American Idol, twice, but didn’t even make it past the preliminary rounds to be on the show!  What if she had quit before she got started?  As you may know, Lady Antebellum has numerous hits, platinum singles, and kicked butt with 5 Grammy Awards at the 53rd Grammy’s.

What the American Idol contestants can teach us writers is that no matter what happened on the show, they continued to pursue their dream. Just as some of them will never have a hit record, some of us will never get published. But in this day and age we have options. Singers can upload their songs on iTunes or YouTube. We writers can self-publish or e-publish. Let America decide, rather than a few judges or editors.

 

Current Works-In-Progress

I just attended a great blogging Meetup with guest speakers from Google.  Wow!  There is a lot to learn about this blogging universe. It’s all very exciting. I’m meeting great people, professional bloggers and would-be bloggers. Some new to it, like me. Everyone is passionate about their topic and eager to share their knowledge and experiences with the world. I’m raring to go but I have a book deadline that I need to concentrate on. Once I turn in my manuscript I’ll be able to join the blogging community in full force.

My current works-in-progress are a grant writing non-fiction book for McGraw-Hill. It’s coming along nicely and I hope this book will help non-profits everywhere make it through these challenging economic times. This project is so important to me that I put my fiction projects aside to give it my full attention. Meanwhile my latest short film project, Still Life, is complete and has been entered in several film festivals. Click on the Still Life links to the right to find out more.

Hello world!

I am a professional writer and a filmmaker. Above all, I am a storyteller. Whether I’m writing a World War II drama, a romantic comedy, or a thriller, my goal is to entertain, enlighten and surprise my readers. I write non-fiction, too. I write non-fiction to inspire, inform and help others. I am always learning, always stretching my boundaries creatively, and I consider myself a work in progress. I’m like a three-headed hydra, pulled in three different genres. If you’re curious about where my creative endeavors are leading me, Click one of my links in the sidebar to find out.